I just recently started reading this new blog (DEFINITELY WORTH THE READ) and came across one of the post by the name of "Do the Math".....
http://www.gottalovethehater.blogspot.com/
.....It was about the acceptable difference in age between two consentual partners. He argued that if both parties are above the legal age limit (being 21+ that is) then there shouldn't be any discrepancies, and I agree with that. Two "adults" (assuming of course) should be able to make a decision about their potential signifcant other. However, Mr. Gottalovethehater seems to believe that the thought about women maturing faster then men is a completely false statement and there's where I begin my disagreements!
By nature women mature earlier then men. This doesn't apply for every case of course but definitely for the majority. I notice many women like to date older and refuse to go younger then their age. Men that are younger just don't ever seem to be on the same level as the ladies, intellectually speaking of course. I don't blame them for thinking ahead and saving themselves the heart break and headache. However, ladies, you don't want to put yourselves in boxes because you never know who you could be shutting out of your life. However, I completely understand the notion that an older man will be on your intellectual level, because it's very rare...let me stop telling stories...I never find a guy my age or younger that can connect with me. After college, like his blog stated, I found that dating guys my age is not the pool that I need to be swimming in. Because when you aren't as easily fooled or as gullable as the typical Freshman, the average college guy will stop talking to you to find some poor girl easy enough to fall for his antics.
The conversation isn't the same either with younger guys. Many guys in their early 20's aren't ready to settle down and find that special lady they'd love to be with. They are more concerned with any type of gaming system, the gym and their non-existing bodies, getting laid (should've been first), drinking with the fellas, or anything else that doesn't involve sharing yourself with your potential mate. (Whether it be feelings, likes/dislikes, or just plain opening up) Guys, generally, just get a little bit better at those things as they get older.
But REMEMBER ladies, don't be shallow and only deal with physically attractive, older men because you will be disappoined every time. The lies get better and the games only become more tricky. Play it smart. Know what you will and won't tolerate before engaging ing any type of relationship...
Happy Love Hunting Ladies
No comments:
Post a Comment