Age Ain't Nothing But A Number (singing)

I just recently started reading this new blog (DEFINITELY WORTH THE READ) and came across one of the post by the name of "Do the Math".....
                           http://www.gottalovethehater.blogspot.com/
.....It was about the acceptable difference in age between two consentual partners. He argued that if both parties are above the legal age limit (being 21+ that is) then there shouldn't be any discrepancies, and I agree with that. Two "adults" (assuming of course) should be able to make a decision about their potential signifcant other. However, Mr. Gottalovethehater seems to believe that the thought about women maturing faster then men is a completely false statement and there's where I begin my disagreements!

By nature women mature earlier then men. This doesn't apply for every case of course but definitely for the majority. I notice many women like to date older and refuse to go younger then their age. Men that are younger just don't ever seem to be on the same level as the ladies, intellectually speaking of course. I don't blame them for thinking ahead and saving themselves the heart break and headache. However, ladies, you don't want to put yourselves in boxes because you never know who you could be shutting out of your life. However, I completely understand the notion that an older man will be on your intellectual level, because it's very rare...let me stop telling stories...I never find a guy my age or younger that can connect with me. After college, like his blog stated, I found that dating guys my age is not the pool that I need to be swimming in. Because when you aren't as easily fooled or as gullable as the typical Freshman, the average college guy will stop talking to you to find some poor girl easy enough to fall for his antics.

The conversation isn't the same either with younger guys. Many guys in their early 20's aren't ready to settle down and find that special lady they'd love to be with. They are more concerned with any type of gaming system, the gym and their non-existing bodies, getting laid (should've been first), drinking with the fellas, or anything else that doesn't involve sharing yourself with your potential mate. (Whether it be feelings, likes/dislikes, or just plain opening up) Guys, generally, just get a little bit better at those things as they get older.

But REMEMBER ladies, don't be shallow and only deal with physically attractive, older men because you will be disappoined every time. The lies get better and the games only become more tricky. Play it smart. Know what you will and won't tolerate before engaging ing any type of relationship...
Happy Love Hunting Ladies

U Can't Handle the Truth!

I'm so extremly fed up with girls who proclaim their throroughness to guys about how they can handle the truth.
          "I just want you to be honest.. please, just tell me the truth.", "You don't know how I'm going to react, try me??"

Give up the act ladies! Please, because as soon as the guy tells you how he is feeling you go straight to BLACK and go ape sh#t on him.

I know it may seem like I'm deserting my own sex but this very thing messes it up for the ladies that can actually handle hearing the truth. As fun as it may be to decipher code and the translation of your true feelings, men please if you are honest from the beginning then you wont have any problems. On the plus side guys, the female, in return, will be less likely to turn you down. Use your charismatic personality to win them over. The majority of the female population are naturally attracted to guys who are honest. Honesty shows that you have nothing to hide (making us feel like you can be open with us and vice versa) and exudes confidence (a definite TURN ON). Knowing everything from the beginning will allow you to say things like, "Well, I told you I wasn't looking for a relationship" or "I let you know all of these things from jump." In return males, this will limit unecessary damge to cars, clothes, shoes, or any other "priceless" materialist things. A female will feel stupid to even go there because, in the end we always end up saying things like "The least he could've done was tell me the truth." And anyone she tries to vent to will say "At least he was honest and told you what was good from the start." In the end you will be respected for being a MAN and being honest instead of played and disrespected behind your back for being a COWARD.

He's Just Not That Into You!

I'm having an out of body experience today. It's a little baffling to me that it took me all of two weeks to realize that he's just not that into me. After a certain number (that won't be revealed of course) of failed attempted relationships you'd think I would've grasped the concept of sifting through the signs. It's something I pride myself on. I don't, like most women I guess, consider myself to be your typical female. I know how to read the non verbal signs that boys and men like to through at us females to keep us on their "team" or the "I'm done with this" signs. But for whatever reason, like all of the previous attempts, I get into my "you just CAN'T be giving me the blow off signs" way and ignore all the signs until I question the guy to death and I no longer want to remain friends because you (meaning I of course) mislead me. LOL. It only took me two weeks to realize I was being blown off. I know right... He doesn't know what he is missing. LOL. So to all of my fellow strong and independent women play the game smart and don't become a statistic. Men are simple in a way that they will show and tell you exactly what you need to know. Read ALL of the signs and don't be misled. We have ALL of the power we just choose to lead with emotions instead of our heads. Also, I use the phrase "Play the Game" very loosely because when it comes to humans in general, we have a tendency to manipulate and try to have the upper hand in anything to remain in control. So play the game and play it right. Learn your guy/female of interest before engaging in any type of physical behavior. I guarantee you will be satisfied with the out come. And the moment you notice distance, fall back. Don't mention your falling back, just fall back and watch it work.

Signed
HE JUST CAN'T BE BLOWING ME OFF