The behavioral differences between men and women are always told the same way. Women are made out to be the more "sensitive", "clingy", "passionate", and "wanting more for the relationship" type of partner. Meanwhile, men are said to be "nonchalant", "indifferent", "unattachable", and "unconcerned with going deeper into the rabbit hole with Alice" (hehehe). However, now-a-days I'm feeling like the roles have been reversed. Ever since I broke up with one particular ex my feelings towards relationships have been uninterested and insensitive. I'm noticing myself dealing with men whom remind me of myself in my longest lasting relationship. I'm not sure what it is about asking me "Are you going to answer your phone or respond to my text?", but it is such an utter TURN OFF. Sometimes, when I talk to these guys I want to say "Be a man!", "Take control of the situation", and "Stop B!tc*in!". You don't have to tell me you're gonna stop calling me. If I'm not answering my phone, just stop calling. A public service announcement is not necessary. I'm not block-headed. I, unlike many others I know, know how to use deductive reasoning. At the end of the day if we click, I actually like you and the only problem is time then "guess what???? I'll make time". I assure, you make no mistake about it, the busiest person in the World can make time to take a phone call or respond to a text.
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