Boys Trying 2B Men

It is completely impossible for me to think that a woman can ever be with a man platonically. The foolish yet consistent dream that every young girl has about her wedding day is seemly pointless...to me anyway. To ask the rhetorical question, "Why do men cheat?" is in many ways like asking "Why did the chicken cross the road?" No one really knows the answer except the chicken, of course, but I've come to realize the bigger picture....it doesn't matter why your man can't stay faithful to you. The fact is, he is a man and it is impossible for a man to be satisfied with just one lover. As depressing as it seems, its the truth. Now-a-days, men are always looking for the next hot item. Always trying to upgrade. And the sooner we as woman come to realize it the happier we will be. Many people believe that when a man loves a woman his love for that woman blinds him from other women. WRONG!!!!! I know many women know this is a falsified statement in its own. During the instant a man falls in love with someone they don't get cupid lasik surgery. I'll tell you what happens, like women, they recognize that their feelings for this particular person are stronger than they realized and desire to take it to the next step, which could be different for each man.

I'm tired of reading the "10 Reasons Your Man Cheats"or the "Why He Cheats" aricles. It becomes very repetitive and mundane. Men cheat because that's all they know. Personal experiences with family members or friends will poison a young mans mind into believing that settling down with just one woman is not the best way to live. Often times family members play a huge role in a man's sexual life, especially a man's mother.  If Mom doesn't like Girlfriend, Mom will sometimes put the bug in Son's ear; "You have time to get married. Don't rush. Continue dating until you meet the right one. Then marry her." (Knowing either way over bearing Mom does not approve of anyone) When Son hears statements like this from Mom, he understands that "I can continue to do what I want because, after all, "I'm not married." But like anything, you need practice before the real thing. If you always cheat on all of your girl friends what do you think will happen when you get married. You have to practice anything to be good at it. I long for the day I meet a man faithful to his wife.