Some Tats I'm thinking of

Boys Trying 2B Men

It is completely impossible for me to think that a woman can ever be with a man platonically. The foolish yet consistent dream that every young girl has about her wedding day is seemly pointless...to me anyway. To ask the rhetorical question, "Why do men cheat?" is in many ways like asking "Why did the chicken cross the road?" No one really knows the answer except the chicken, of course, but I've come to realize the bigger picture....it doesn't matter why your man can't stay faithful to you. The fact is, he is a man and it is impossible for a man to be satisfied with just one lover. As depressing as it seems, its the truth. Now-a-days, men are always looking for the next hot item. Always trying to upgrade. And the sooner we as woman come to realize it the happier we will be. Many people believe that when a man loves a woman his love for that woman blinds him from other women. WRONG!!!!! I know many women know this is a falsified statement in its own. During the instant a man falls in love with someone they don't get cupid lasik surgery. I'll tell you what happens, like women, they recognize that their feelings for this particular person are stronger than they realized and desire to take it to the next step, which could be different for each man.

I'm tired of reading the "10 Reasons Your Man Cheats"or the "Why He Cheats" aricles. It becomes very repetitive and mundane. Men cheat because that's all they know. Personal experiences with family members or friends will poison a young mans mind into believing that settling down with just one woman is not the best way to live. Often times family members play a huge role in a man's sexual life, especially a man's mother.  If Mom doesn't like Girlfriend, Mom will sometimes put the bug in Son's ear; "You have time to get married. Don't rush. Continue dating until you meet the right one. Then marry her." (Knowing either way over bearing Mom does not approve of anyone) When Son hears statements like this from Mom, he understands that "I can continue to do what I want because, after all, "I'm not married." But like anything, you need practice before the real thing. If you always cheat on all of your girl friends what do you think will happen when you get married. You have to practice anything to be good at it. I long for the day I meet a man faithful to his wife.

Women are from Mars, Men are from Venus

The behavioral differences between men and women are always told the same way. Women are made out to be the more "sensitive", "clingy", "passionate", and "wanting more for the relationship" type of partner. Meanwhile, men are said to be "nonchalant", "indifferent", "unattachable", and "unconcerned with going deeper into the rabbit hole with Alice" (hehehe). However, now-a-days I'm feeling like the roles have been reversed. Ever since I broke up with one particular ex my feelings towards relationships have been uninterested and insensitive. I'm noticing myself dealing with men whom remind me of myself in my longest lasting relationship. I'm not sure what it is about asking me "Are you going to answer your phone or respond to my text?", but it is such an utter TURN OFF. Sometimes, when I talk to these guys I want to say "Be a man!", "Take control of the situation", and "Stop B!tc*in!". You don't have to tell me you're gonna stop calling me. If I'm not answering my phone, just stop calling. A public service announcement is not necessary. I'm not block-headed. I, unlike many others I know, know how to use deductive reasoning. At the end of the day if we click, I actually like you and the only problem is time then "guess what???? I'll make time". I assure, you make no mistake about it, the busiest person in the World can make time to take a phone call or respond to a text.

DON'T EVER THINK YOU KNOW ME....

It is called ignorance to speak of something or someone in which you know absolutely nothing about. The human being was created in such a way that our brains are consistently working. So in that sense we are constantly evolving and thinking of new ideas, inventing & creating, and even "upgrading" ourselves. I'm tired of people trying to tell me who I am, or who they've summed me up to be based on previous experiences. Don't ever think that you know me or have me figured out. My limitations are endless. Futhermore, to place the complex system like a human being into a box of limitations and what your personal idea of normalcy is false and you will be disappointed each and every time. I am constantly changing my look, the way I view people and life. Even growing up my address, my swag, my priorities, just about everything except my values has changed in some way. I think by now its needless to say, but ill oblige you and say it one last time don't ever think you know me...you don't. STAMP DAT!

"Human beings, by change, we renew and rejuvenate." -UNKNOWN